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What Happens When a Married Woman Goes on Tinder?

Dating While Married & Poly

On a recent evening, I was having drinks with a male friend a single and actively-looking-for-a-long-term-relationship friend when he asked me why there seemed to be so many married women on Tinder. Did they just want to flirt? My husband and I met at a party on a quiet street in a college town. More women were beginning to see opening their marriages as a legitimate and in many ways appealing option. I wondered if Tinder, which brought the world of dating within finger-tap distance, was accelerating the shift?

In a marriage, a couple gradually grows apart from each other and quarrels about little things. In a relationship, your boyfriend just can't make you feel loved and give you all the attention you need. So there is a desperate need of someone who really understands you.

In this case, an affair with a married man fulfills your emotional need, which is far better than the fulfillment sex can give. For some people, an affair is better than a divorce.

He is a married man, which means he has a wife, kids most probably and job. He will not want to lose all of these.

That is why you can be sure that he will not let anyone know about the two of you. This will be beneficial for you if you also have a family of your own or if you are in a position where your life can turn upside down if your reputation gets hurt. An extramarital affair is way cheaper than a real relationship. It will boost your confidence because you know that he is cheating on someone for you which makes you feel more desirable.

No strings attached and no responsibilities. Family always comes first. Even if he talks about how much he has been detached from his wife, he will always choose to be a husband and try to keep his family together especially if he has children.

He will always prioritize the needs of his wife and kids before your needs. His marriage is based on friendships and social network and he would not want to lose that only because of you. There may be benefits of dating a married man, but the reality will always speak for itself.

As much as you want to tell the whole world how much you love him and how good he is as a boyfriend, it will never happen no matter how long you have been dating. At first, the two of you might be having good times together and planning your future. But keep in mind that everything is just a game. You might even think that his passion is because of his undying love for you but the truth is it is his libido talking.

I knocked the door I love him not because of he is a director, money, position. I love him, day by day, month by month Love is blind He destroy me Married man is scary I though he doesn't has love and I gave to him I don't even has a choice or right to choose to be a 3rd party I been with him 3 years he keeps promising me a future but as time goes on he got married to her had a baby and still says he loves me and wants me I been sleeping alone for 3 years how is this love I feel in love with a married man why he was not married when I got with him how do men love a women and make them sleep alone he takes care of me but I am hurting always thinking he messing with her or is he telling the truth he says he sleeps on the couch he there for the kids now I am on birth control and she has the baby his promises to me he gave her this is not his first time doing this to her he had a kid with someone else and they are still together.

I feel in love with a married man in We never did anything about it - his feelings for me were the same. I moved out of town because I didn't want to have any part of it but was crushed. He emailed me that he left his wife and said his marriage had been strained for years. Months later when I got off my work assignment overseas I came back to be with him. My friends all told me it would be a disaster.

That's when I met and married my husband. We met Dating While Married I also met another man who is a veritable pro at polyamory. Wtf.. Now you are getting a shitstorm, dear OP. And as a man who spent 12 years (and ticking) in a fully open marriage, I sympathize with you. Dating while separated poses a number of potential problems. I counsel men and women before, during and after a relationship or marriage.

It has been 7 years now that we have been married and we are more in love with each other than when we first met. I am the luckiest woman on the planet. Some things were meant to be. We met 6years ago while traveling, he jumped in to protect me in one uncomfortable situation. He then invited to travel with them, I refused as I was afraid of him traumas from my past, I never said that to him then or after We connected on social media, almost no contact, living in different parts of world.

I'm a rape and almost every other kind abuse, long-term survivor. He doesn't know anything of that. Then in few months I travel to another country to meet him this was 2. They all like me. After couple of months I travel to meet him 4. He never initiated anything physical again after 3. He wants to be with me, isn't after sex. When they came I wrote him in sense to not ignore me or I cut him off forever and he answered, didn't want to lose me. I hug him, we should kiss, I run away.

He was never rude. In this field I'm a ruin, handicapped. Years ago I decided to live in complete celibacy forever. After that last time 5months ago I understood I really can't live like that anymore, hurting someone I love. A week ago by complete chance I found out on social media that he got married this May, they are about 10years together already, no kids, engagement last May we met 2times after it. Now we had talked just 2days before, he was the same happy to see me in one week again, as usual.

I asked him about, he confirmed. And for 1. I wrote that I wish him only Happiness in life, and to not hug other women as if he'd want to be with them. No answer. We never even kissed, but he understood when we met 2. My friend then wrote him message if he understands what damage he did to me with his little game.

I still can't get over him. I don't want to be used for sex only then thrown away, it happened not once in past. I don't want sex with him as long as he is married. I don't want to hurt anyone, especially not me. I don't wish anything bad to his family, they are good people and we his brother, some very close friends are kind of friends. Last time we met I said to him that in this year for few months I want to move to his city to learn the language, he was shocked but then invited me.

I am dating am in love with a married man now I don't know what to do cause he has me in his other place and wont let me go out unless I am with him but he gave me the story cause he is keeping me safe and out of what I want and need to do but he said a lot and did a lot to get me now I do more for him than he does for me and I am always alone and before he was always want to go places with me and have fun with me and I know he tells her lies and now he is lying to me too how do I get out before I get hurt more.

You only said one side of the story - did you have an affair with her? You know Are you also playing game with her - believe me - Karma. What if she kill herself because of you? You think you are not guilty in this game of two? So don't be cruel to people play with their emotions. You laughed at her because she is in love with you and you are in a healthy state after all this? If you are looking for married man for dating then you have many online dating website where you can find married partner for dating.

You have findchix. I hope everyone here is getting STD tested on a regular basis because if a married man will go behind his spouse's back for sex another woman mistress, affair partner, wacko on the prowl And yes, I was the wife who had to go through the humiliation and TERROR of STD testing and he did too when his affair came out because of course and most do they threw caution to the wind and didn't use protection.

I hope the women posting here as the "eager and willing affair partners" could experience the pain even for one day of being the betrayed spouse and see the look on their devastated children's faces when they realize that dadd is lying and manipulating and willingly destroying their family for his own pathetic and selfish purposes. Why don't these men just leave their wives? Because they are having their cake and eating it too Or reveal the affair themselves.

Anyone, with any IT experience, can find it. Men rarely leave their wives for affair partners because most are pussies and can't be the agents of change or truth. They'd rather lie, manipulate and gas light their wives and probably their affair partners too than be true men and speak their truth: they want out of a marriage or an affair relationship or both. They sometimes think they are doing less damage than if they asked for a divorce So ladies ask yourselves And don't think one word you are hearing about his wife is true Don't get me started?

I hope you are laughing cause that IS marriage! Oh and don't forget the sexy bills, taking kids to doctor or ER in middle of night for emergency or dealing with aging parents. Honestly, grow up ladies. Stop helping to wreck these women's lives and realize these men are using you!!! Faced with the certainty of losing their family life which also helps their income level! Hope this has given you all something to mull about when you are inviting a married man to help betray his wife, children and extended family thru the charade of an affair.

Get yourself a real relationship. Just some thoughts from the other side. And again, just please Hi all i am separated for 3 years now. I loved my husband we have 2 kids, but he left me for a much younger girl. I have been on and off in relationship with men both married and single,until i met this man. He told me at the onset that he was married.

I really didn't have issues with that bcos i loved him. I found out lately that he is cheating on me with other women apart from his wife. I really am mad at him and want to leave but i still really love him. What should I do? I need advice help me ladies. I have been with this sweet caring loving married man. However I keep making degrees back to him every time I try a new relationship I end up back with him because I honestly love him so much. And he loves me. Never said anything bad about her.

He tells me he loves me and how he marry because at the time he went through awful relationships and needed a life. I need to decide if I should stay and stop running or leave and never look back. How do I prepare for either decisions? He has 2 twins a boy and a girl they are into freshman in high school. His wife knows about me. We see each other a lot and we text every day all day. Do I just give up. We are going away in a few months for the first time together but he has a work meeting too.

You should get out. He may not even be who he says he is. You haven't met him face to face. You haven't been intimate so no loss. Let him go before you find it impossible to.

Trust me. Im 4 years in and cant walk away. Ive been dating a single mom of two for two years. In the begining it was just her and myself then me, her and the girls. OMG they are soo darling. I attend some of her family functions like xmas dinner, birthdays and what not. My marriage has been in termoil way before my affair. We have a son in college and in debt up to our eyeballs. My wife and I sleep in seperate rooms now for almost three years and no we do not have sex we have tried but our bodies will not respond to each other.

I know if I leave home this woman will accept me in her life but I will be so finacially disturbed how can I help her and her children. I know thats not my responsibility but those girls OMG. Shit or get off the pot I guess My husband passed away after 40 years of marriage. Maybe something was missing but i got involved with my married Chiropractor who has been married for 25 years and has 2 adult children and we began a sexual affair.

We met two or three times a month at my house but after 6 months I had decided to end our fake relationship. He liked having access to me and i was a breath of fresh air in his busy mundane life. He had never cheated before and often expressed guilt. He really was a good man. Fact: he was not available to me and i was wasting my time on someone who could never be there for me. I broke it off, without a word.

1 to suspicious married women -- but not so fast. The bold And if you're a married guy, [that online date] could call your spouse. But if you. But whatever the reason is, a married man who is dating another woman aside from his wife is being unfaithful to his marriage vows. If you plan to date or is. Dating a married woman may seem difficult or taboo, but it is easier than Every heterosexual man on this earth is interested in and wants to.

Blocked his number Cold turkey. He will never value me or appreciate what he had with me so it was time to let go.

He violated his ethics and his vows and couldn't justify it. I didn't want to ruin his life either. I'll be fine. From now on I will measure the quality of every man who comes into my life and if any of them are like my late husband i won't let them go. I care a lot for him as he does me. I care a lot for him. And from the beginning was very honest about his relationship with his spouse who he has gone through a lot with and not in a good way either.

Not sure to continue or wait to see what could be. Slightly meaning we live many many miles apart. West coast vs East Coast. The chemistry we have is crazy I know he loves his kids and spouse but he says the pull here is real. Of course intimacy has not happened but he has talked about one day hoping to hold me and hold a face to face deep conversation Help anyone? He was living with his roommate who has children.

He slept on the couch. Funny huh? Well this past weekend I called because he was home with his daughter and she went out. I had lost my house keys, he never answered my calls to help me as he had a key to my home. His wife was. I talked with her and she started asking questions. I told the truth, now I am the person who ruined his whole life. He never even liked me as so he says. But yet 4 to 5 days a week he came took me to dinner, stayed here in my bed having sex with me.

Telling me he was going to leave just not now. I was controlled with who I could talk to, what I can say. Please if you are in a relationship with a married man get out before he destroys your heart. He was so loving to me. Took care of me.

Told me how much I meant to him. But now I meant absolutely nothing to him and this was my fault. Just as stated, yes indeed she told me he was sleeping in her bed and yes they were having sex.

All Lies since the first day we met. Please get out and save your heart and soul. It is so painful to be told all the horrible truths. I thought he was different than others that cheat. But truly he is the worst kind of married man anyone can meet. I love this article so very much. So true that you find yourself rejected and left alone when you put everything in the same basket for a married man.

If your married men are real and have been honest with you from the beginning and treated you as top priority compared to his family. Made you laughed, the most happiest person in the world and would discussed whenever you face problems. Would you consider to keep the relationship? Not all married men are brutal liars. Men heart are bigger than women for sure. One is for real love and one for family and status. There are commitment and divided responsibilities to ensure how the society look at them.

Sounds weird but that's the facts. Just make sure they are not sleeping together. This topic should also differentiate true and genuine married men Vs those heartless men who uses their loved ones for own desire and selfish motives. Some men have also invested heavily when comes to long term emotions and impact when the time comes I liked some of this until the BS about making a man pay for you or support you. How dare you demean women and make them think the only thing they deserve is cash.

They are not hookers. I met this guy in a foreign country. He asked me out, and I was instantly drawn to him before he even spoke to me. We had coffee. I asked straight up if he was married or had kids. He said he was separated and had two adult children. When he said separated I thought literally separated like they are no longer together but not yet divorced.

I had to go back to my country. We kept in touch. I asked him if I could come visit he said sure. I came to visit and we started our relationship. When I come to visit we are living together which I feel terrible about. For two months? He says ok. The problem is I think he really does love me. I love him. We never fight, and get along great and laugh all the time.

To make things even more weird is I had waking visions I was going to meet someone who loved me for about 2. It was ongoing. The entire time until I met him. But I feel like if he is still going to be with his wife maybe I should date others too.

Once in awhile I feel he is being fake but majority of the time I feel he is being sincere. Also he said he had a 7 year telationship with another woman. He never answers those calls in front of me.

I am 26 years old and have been having an affair with my best friends father since i turned I know he won't leave his wife and family, but in the meantime we are having sex every day, talk to each other about what we're doing, what would happen if it got out and of course day to day problems at work. We have been so careful, even while i was living in the house.

Man dating while married

It started as a place to live, but i knew he wanted me since i was 13, the way he would look at me, lick his lips, pat my ass, rub his well endowed baggage. They treated me as their own, yet i have crossed the line, lied and yet it has still been one my happiest pleasures.

We don't have time to worry, it is our time and yes it started out as lust, sex, at all hours of the day or night, but it has also turned into love.

As hard as it is to take care of his wants and needs, i too have to take care of mine and so I to go out to take care of me, because one day, me is all i'm going to have. He treats me like a queen, we go away all the time, i have been to places all around this beautiful world because i satisfy him whenever, what ever he wants and i know this is his guilt by taking me away.

We have made love on beaches, in the mountains, airplanes, elevators, cars, in the house when i was still living there, in my bedroom, his office, even his work office, nude resorts, chalets, and it goes on and on.

He bought me a 1 carat diamond ring and wedding band and we even came up with a story for people to believe who didn't know us. He pays for a young gentleman to be at my beck and call for functions that include my friends and family, including his daughter, my bff. The past eight years i wouldn't trade at all, but we know it's coming to an end very soon, as i have met someone who is only 4 years older than me, not 18and we are starting to plan our wedding. No, he is not aware of my relationship with big daddy.

All he knows is that this family took me in when mine didn't have time for me and i am treated like one of the kids. Big daddy will walk me down the aisle, my bff will be my maid of honor and life will go on the way i hope it will. All I know for now is big daddy was my first sexual partner and it has been a great time and I am still his baby girl.

I need opinions. Do you think a married man treats his wife similiar or the same? What I am referring to is manipulation, control, emotionally detached. I feel honestly that my boyfriend is mentally abusive. I never intended on feelings being involved but they are.

He says they do their own thing. Even one of her friends told me the sane thing without even knowing about us. We talk about him leaving her as they are talking about a seperation. We talk about a future. He calls and texts daily comes to my job daily. Just confused a little. I met this guy almost 4 years ago! He is 18 years older than me, but he was so charming and nice a total gentleman, he ask me out and first thing I asked if he was married, he said he was divorced, so we went along, going out having drinks, nice dinners for couple of months, then I decided to introduce him to my friends and coworkers on one of my birthday dinners, after that everything was great I met his friends and the wives of the friends, we had a great relationship until on of my coworkers one day told me that her husband has seen me with my boyfriend and he mentioned that he was married!!!

I met a charmer on one of my travel job assignments, he was married as I. I was going through a divorce, but he is still married, i have been dealing with him since to now, i have flown to see him and now we work in the same city, he claim he is separtated, and not sleeping in the same bed, also claims they dont have sex. However, i offered him to stay with me, when he arrived in TX, and he did, we had sex everyday, well i overheard every conversation, i put camera's with sound all around the house so that i could hear every conversation, because he had told me to much.

I feel bad listening, however i overheard him talking too her and the things i overheard, was crazy, like fighting, talk back and forth, about why she does not touch him, and why she does not help around the house and take care of the kids, and whay she smokes weed and drink for years. He had cheated on her with several woman for 10 years before he met me, i told him why dont you set her and yourself free, he said ite because of the two kid, want to tell them, but they are to small to understand.

They are allways struggling financial, they dont have sex, she told him onthe phone that he knew she was not sexually active when they got married 16 years ago.

So out of all of this he met me, and told me he cant see his life without me in it, and he loves me. Do not say he will not leave his wife and children, i can honestly say he will. I was left with 4 children and he left for my best friend.

It was devastating for me and my children, who had known her for 11 yrs. My fault was letting her be my confident. She knew every thing and used it against me. We still feel the effects of a divorce and there is distance between our children and their father. His girlfriendv is not welcome to any family activites. So every event is hectic tovsay the least. I've never dated a married man but now I find myself in love with one who seems to love me back. But oh my God did I want to.

We were friends for six months before I had a clue he liked me. Then another six months and a few drinks in he spills it. His wife is jealous of me and he's had feelings for me for a long time. I thought we were just good friends who shared drinks, intimate stories, and nothing more. I was fighting some feelings for a few months but I figured crushes are health. Crushes clue you into what you like about people in general and make it easier to identify future good partners.

But over the past few months I've had to practically stop myself from begging for a kiss from him. Before he confessed feelings he confessed his marriage was troubled and she cheated on him three times. I thought "People lie about that sort of thing sometimes" but, no, it was true. He drunkenly confessed that to one of his best guy friends.

I guess you could call it an emotional affair but we've helped each other emotionally, intellectually, and artistically. I feel like I'm a better person for knowing him and I care about him very deeply as a friend I have thought about just asking him what he thinks about leaving his wife then giving us a chance.

I know he thinks about me. But I also have reason to believe he will never leave her despite his feelings for me and the fact that she cheated on him three times. One of them with his best friend. I can't imagine why he would stay with her. That night, I confessed back that I do have feelings for him but I'm not going to date a married man. Ultimately, if he really wanted to change his life he would have already divorced her, taken time to himself, and then swooped me up.

Fantasy thinking perhaps. Which is why I haven't made a move. But I couldn't stand to lose his friendship. I dream about what it would be like to have him in my bed. In my mind he's already kissed every inch of my body. SO I must contact him as little as possible. I haven't seen him in about two weeks and I miss him every day. I am for middle East far away from your world but I want share my experience as well I get divorced 2 times with out any baby and after that I could not live in peace our society is very small and closed every body talking about me why she got divorce towice time some thing Is wrong with her.

No family accept their son married with one lady who got divorced 2 times I have mastered degree but I could not find any job and my family dont wanted me more so what I did the most stupid thing I could do. I join to one dating website and find middle East man who is married with 3 kids I told him my life and he ask me go to country he lived there I make story for my family I am going for get my PhD I put my self in deep messy I went we were together after 6 months he told me sorry I must back to the EU he has EU passport he is citizen there and for me with my passport I could not go he take his wife and family and leave me I back to my country with Brocken heart I just wish to die I just wanted to run away and now look at me.

I got one don't marry a married man or a woman don't ruin somebody's home there's plenty of people out there Jezebel!!! I met a guy 3 months ago. For no real reason i hardly ever give out my number but I did this time. He had already texted me within the hour. We txted two days until i told him it was okay to call.

We have talked every single day multiple times for last 3 months. Make a long story short i found out my own way he is married. I wasnt in love or anything but had just taken a strong liking to him. I said it was over ignored all calls and texts for a day called him next day n have been with him every since. He never has his phone out around me never makes me feel anything other than his woman.

I honestly dont expect anymore than what we are. Talk text spend time go out sometimes. I was married 14 years to wrong man and right now after ths i dont know that i even want a man of my own. I plan to see him long as whatever and then be single again. Smh I never would think i would do this. I'm 28 years of age.

Separated But Not Divorced: Should You Date Him?

I'm dating a married man. Like any other relationship everything was perfect. He makde it very clear that he's a married man. I made peace with that and even adviced him to go see her on weekends since i was staying with him.

He always didn't want to go home but i was always pushing him to. As understanding as i was, i was very okay with the set up. A year down the line I was pregnant. Gave birth and he was there. Problems started when he told his wife about the child. The wife immediately wanted to file for divorce. To myself I'm thinking it's only because she's angry. But now apparently im not told about the latest of the divorce. Yes i was understanding.

But since i heard about the divorce my mind was like okay. I'll have him as a husband alone. I started having ideas of how we'd be happy or the set up at home. I love the guy. But he does not support me whatsoever. I'm tired of waiting for him.

The other thing is, i no longer believe that there's divorce. I gave myself a time line but he's not aware. Sometimes i feel as though he uses me to fix things at home. More especially sex. I was married for almost 2 decades, divorced in my early 40s. I dated for awhile but most single men my age wanted something I didn't have to give. So after the divorce I did not want another "all in" relationship.

Truthfully I never craved marriage like a lot of women anyway, from the outside it looked restricting for women - and it was. But everyone - even the government tells you it's the thing to do to be successful. Anyway after about a year and a half of being single and dating in my early 40s I met my married man. I did not know on our first outing out with friends of friendsI was just having a good time, and he was super nice. I let him take me home, no thoughts of anything in the future.

He is 10 years older than me. I don't have to cook dinner, wash clothes, plan vacations, make dr. I tell him all the time to not even think about leaving his wife because I will never be that for him.

How to Date a Married Woman

At my age I know that a full time relationship would be nothing like we have - we are perpetually dating, and I'm fine with that. He has decades with the wife, and grown kids, and I respect that - she can have the marriage, the kids weddings, the grand kids, the pensions, the family vacations - I don't want it - or the responsibility that comes with it. It's been 3 years and I absolutely am thrilled about the time we have together still.

We go out on great dates, he is so much more responsible than the single men that are my age - he is stable and has his isht together and I love that. It's probably because women are the ones who make men stable?

It certainly was the case in my marriage. He does help out with things financially - but I never asked him to, and don't really need it, but it is very nice, and I feel like HE feels a little obligated. He certainly pays for all of our outings. All in all - it just works for me. I'm not opposed to seeing other men, but I haven't run across anyone who interest me or who were interested in me either I guess. It's not off the table, and I do miss having someone to go on trips with - or to take to weddings or work events.

So if I run across a flirtation that feels like it could be something more I'm still up for that, and my married man knows it as well. At the end of the day I know exactly what my relationship is, as does he, and we enjoy it for that. It depends on how the two of you relate. I don't have a problem with my married boyfriend as long as we continue loving each other.

I've been seeing a married man for the past 6 months and I can say after last night I had to find it in my heart to let it all go. It's been good at times. He's helped out some and has kept my mind free from others. But I realized last night that I'm truly in love with this guy and that wasn't my intentions at all.

From us hanging out to the long face time talks he has shown me more attention than some of the single men out there. We met up last night and after I left I cried and told myself that I deserve more than this. Yes this is hard because it's like I was in a full relationship with him and our bond has grew stronger, but I know this can't go anywhere.

If you're reading this wondering what you should do I would say get out when you can because it leads to a dead end road. I haven't even told him I was done with it all I just deleted his number last night and blocked him from calling or texting.

That was something I had to do for me because I know I'm a good woman and I deserve to be happy. I met Nick 15 months ago. One of the 3 questions I asked immediately was "Are you married"? He said "No"! I found out August 14, that he had applied for a marriage license April of I found it online and I wasn't looking for that I misplaced his address so i decided to get it off line. I called the clerk of court and "BAM" the joker is married.

No words Jesus take the wheel. Ladies stop playing the fool. I met B after loss of a mutual friend. I knew he was married the day we started texting and he asked to meet me in person, for memory of our Dear Late friend and we had lunch. I was happily divorced at the time when we met, looking for a somewhat meaningful relationship.

He was very charming and I was under the spell the minute I laid eyes on him. I have always had the rule of never being involved with a married man but I guess being unable to find the right type of person and how charming he was with the way he talked to me and convinced me about his soon to be over marriage, relationship quickly progressed into intimacy and like no other before.

He is 10 yrs older than me and at first he was saying about what was going wrong in his marriage and how she is a doctor and works so many hours and he is always alone and that he takes care of their son etc etvc. We literally became friends with benefits So after 3 months into it, I ended it- I asked to meet at a coffee shop and told him that I had met someone and that I did not know what would happen but that I was not going to go into anything having a guy on the side.

It was hard. Being divorced and knowing what men are and can be like, has made dating very complicated. B kept texting, calling at random times and checking in on me over the course of 6 months.

I mostly ignored all calls and texts but some I responded. Then after 7 months- still being single and being in my sexual prime 40 I texted him one morning and said I want you today at this time at this hotel, can you be there? This was exactly 8 weeks ago. Since then we have been meeting every Thursday after work, and have amazing sex for 3 hrs.

Not a word all week well mostly but then rolls in Thursday So last Thursday he was unable to meet me. Then out of no where Tuesday night he texts me at pm to see if I can meet him- and I was in a Board Meeting so I could not- then he said we ll meet Wednesday then he said he couldn't and to keep Thursday plan- well it is and not a word.

If we change our morals, rules for others- we will end up getting hurt. I want all my fellow female friends on here to read their own stories as someonelses and see how they have the answer actually. Be the third person in the relationship- end it move on I also know this for a fact that it is better to be alone than be in a toxic relationship No man should be obligated to support you unless you are married, or living together in a long term relationship.

Girls, take care of yourselves - you will be even more attractive to a man at that point.

A loving relationship should not based on monetary values, live should be first. You should feel comfortable with this person. Are you going to hold that against him? There are many more ways to determine if a man loves you other than money. Start with what your gut tells you. If you have doubts, look him in the face and talk it over with him. Money is not what love is all about. The ppl who write these seem to be some cold hearted person.

With my relationship it's different. Only he went back to her. I'm not sure y, I didn't ask. He makes big sacrifices for me all of the time. And all men gets jealous so I'm not going to be stupid n do something that'll make him jealous.

Advising that to me sounds like someone trying to sabotage other ppls good relationships. That's wrong. I was having problems with this man n my bf went n talked to him about it. He made sure that I wasn't going to get anymore problems from him.

Plus he stayed with me all night instead of going to his wife. I believe that she knows about us but won't tell. I mean even a blind person could see him going out of his way for me.

It's not a secret that I'm married, but it's also not something I want to I don't keep my marriage a secret from the guys I date I don't take off. Loving and dating a married man can be extremely painful and seldom works out well. But this article is not intended to judge anyone or tell you. Nicole Franklin shares her conversations with couples and experts on the world of Dating While Married.

Not to mention the long looks he gives me right in front of her. Then after he stayed with me she did something to make him feel guilty. I won't say what that is. So my relationship is nothing like what ur stories. He's here every night after work n only leaves if he has to. My wife has been the best blessing that God has ever giving to me and i was scared i would lose her to someone else thats why i contacted you guys for help and you delivered me from my doubts.

I went through all her messages on my phone as soon as you hacked into her cell and i found out she has never been cheating on me. She cares about me,our son and now i never have to worry about losing her ever again. I will never forget the big favor you helped me the. Please I have been reading and going through all the comments I most confess this site has helped me alot reading and learning from other people's experienced.

He can never do anything more to u that have uncountable and numerous sex with u. My experience here is short and to the point I knew this man for a short time but my guts didn't trust him I kept on making excuses for him. But I could not take it to the point where he will be with me and kept on calling his wife in my presence these when on for some time. Like seriously all I needed was fun but it should came with some respect.

So I have decided to move on as if nothing ever happened to safe myself from emotional landslide. I'm currently seeing a married man for 2 years now. We both know that we are 'special' friends with benefits. The first time I met him, at work, I got attracted to him and then I saw his wedding ring, for a while I got sad. But he kept being him who is a great man and we got closer and we laughed together. I liked him again and fantasized about him. Then we kissed and kept doing it and after a month I invited him to my place.

I was a virgin then, we did everything except penetration. It was my choice. He was respectful. He comes over times a week and hooked up at work too. One day, he texted me that we needed to lay low because his wife got suspicious. She saw him parked at the corner of the street by their house on his phone. He said it was a call from work. He never called or texted for 3 weeks.

I got mad because he can't even text me even if he's at work. We were in different departments then Then he reached out and we talked in person.

I told him that he has 3 priorities. I told him that we will never have a future together my point was, to keep his family. I knew where I stand, I never wanted to be his wife, I would love to but I am not expecting and I want to be a mother in the future and he's already fixed so that would be a problem. I am not a homewrecker. I don't ask for money, he did give me flowers and candies then but I'm not expecting more because his wife might be suspicious with his credit and I don't want to get him in trouble and I still want to keep our relationship.

We talk about his kids most of the time and I respect him and his family. We both know that I will be with someone who I can be with for the rest of my life. Btw, I gave my vcard to him and for now, we are still having fun. Every coin has two of its sides. The same is here. First of all, the question seems objective but it is not.

It is rather subjective and has a full length of ifs and buts. The strongest of the things in the universe that is love sees no boundaries. So, if it is not wrong to fall in love, loving a married man is also no wrong. That is cheating. That is wrong. I don't share my man to anyone. So no way in this wide world I would accept him to sleep with another woman. Luckily, I found that man for 17 years and still going strong Bottom line, I don't share a man with any woman as long as I live.

How to Handle Loving and Dating a Married Man

If I die yes, he can sleep with other woman. If he or I cross the line. It's OVER.

Just simple as that. So that said, I don't sleep with a married man who also sleep with his wife. I said that I do that with my clear consciousness. So if you allow or accept the situation whether you like it or not, I am sorry but sounds like you are NOT a strong person at all. You're your worse enemy. You know Why? Affair with a married man is something like feeling as if you are inside a pressure cooker.

Many and many things cook inside you. You just do not know what is happening with you and what should be done? You are in constant fix over the point that either wrong is happening to you or it is you are who is doing the wrong?

The sense of guilt starts to take over you and your affair with man and makes the situation go even worse. But that even teaches you a lot of things. Most of the married men who have affair with other women are found to cheat even the girlfriend. They have commitment issues. You can get amazing look at about dating a married man.

What if no kids are involved and his wife is never around. They are military so they rushed into a relationship and he already filed for divorce. She is deployed, but now she is coming back. He claims he is going to finalize everything and make sure his name is off everything, but im not stupid. He is ex military so they have that connection that I would never understand.

After all he loved her enough to marry her even though they only dated for two months and she asked him first. When she gets back in town they are gonna have sex.

I know it! I already cut things off with him, but he refuses to let me go. We dont even have sex. Its been almost a month. Agin his wife is away and we been on this rollercoaster for 3 years. Decided to become friends in and he apologized i got mad and cut him off agin, i felt there was something more.

He told me is wife got deployed but they are separated and he filed for divorce. Summer of his wife is about to come back I dont trust him so i dont have faith he will go through with finalizing the divorce. I literally wanted to cry. It made me feel special. Come to find out his phone broke the day after I ended things. So I called his job and he was happy to gear from me and we laughed about the situation. The sad thing is he was telling the truth about his phone.

I told him that we shouldnt still see eachother anymore and he should definitely focus on his wife! I dont want to be the reason he is getting a divorce! I want him to try one last time when sge gets back and I love him enough to see that he is happy without me.

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